Janet Attwood: Living Your Life With Passion Update

A quick heads up following on from my chat with Janet last moth.

If you still have a nagging feeling that you could/should be doing something else but are not sure, this may be of help.

Click on the tab and head over to find out more about what truly is your passion.

Cheers

The Importance of Self Esteem in Creating Succes

My article today is aimed at women who work in a corporate setting.

Your company may have a dress code stipulated or as with some industries it may be informal but you still need to turn up well attired.

My point is that women get to express some of their individuality in their accessories and colors.

So let’s look at this scenario-you have an unlimited budget for clothes, shoes, hand bag(s) etc.

You turn up in designer heels, dress and are immaculately coiffed.

You have burns scars to 75% of your body including your face, upper arms and have only one ear.

How would you feel?

In a world quick to judge on the way we look and dress, some people might find that despite being well dressed, they would still feel like crawling under a rock.

I talked to Kelly Falardeau a burns survivor about her journey from hell to becoming an entrepreneur, motivational speaker and author of her new book “Self Esteem doesn’t come in a bottle”.

Listen to her pearls of wisdom

http://yourmoneyandyourmindset.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/Kelly-Falardeau-Interview.mp3

Yes, she is out there standing in front of crowds knowing they will be staring at her scars and not giving a damn what they think.

She has self esteem.

Which brings me to the title of this article: The Importance of Self Esteem in Creating Success

Our ability to become wealthy and successful is determined by the level of our self esteem and self respect.

When we hold ourselves in high esteem and we respect us (the self) regardless of the opinion of others (which may be positive or of the knee capping variety), we have discovered one of the many secrets to wealth and success.

Three tips for maintaining your equanimity at work

Maintaining your equanimity, composure and internal sense of balance is a skill than anyone can develop.

I call it a secret weapon of the successful who seem to be able to navigate their way through an office environment that is studded with booby traps and minefields cunningly disguised as work colleagues; from the hypochondriac who painstakingly documents and broadcasts their every ache and pain (and bodily functions) to the angst ridden determined to share their life story and every other possible combination in between.

Our external world mirrors what goes on for us at the subconscious level. We attract into our immediate environment people and situations that remind us of what we focus on most within ourselves.

Ask yourself as you are reading this, what has been ticking over in your mind today. Was it a pleasant and happy conversation or encounter with another person, or was it you wishing you had the last word in an argument. Our best comeback lines are usually after the fact, sad but true.

Do you also notice that the same incident plays on high rotation in a loop fashion in your head, much like background muzak in a restaurant? It is just barely noticeable but it is there, insidious isn’t it.

So, the three circuit breaker tips I suggest are:

1)    Check in on yourself

By that I mean, pause regularly during your work day and breathe; yes literally notice yourself breathing in and then gently exhaling. This is designed to slow down brain activity for 20 seconds, long enough for you to pay attention to your body instead of rushing headlong to meeting external deadlines.

This 20 seconds can be the difference between having a productive day or having a tense exchange with a co worker.

2)    Eat your lunch away from your desk or work station

Being the office burning martyr will not get you a medal; removing yourself physically from your desk even if lunch is 20 minutes allows your brain to recalibrate.

Great for problem solving because it gives you time to mull over the facts (as you chew your food) without consciously thinking about coming up with a solution.

3)   Remind yourself of what is important in your life

Keep a motivational quote on a 3 x 5 card by your computer as a reminder that you have a choice about how you are going to feel today; you choose how you wish to respond to your present circumstances.

Just reminding all you good people that I have a website devoted to mindset and financial freedom if you are wondering where some of the interviews have gone. Please head over to

http://yourmoneyandyourmindset.com

Janet Attwood Interview: Living Your Life With Passion

It is always a delight to interview people who possess an infectious sense of enjoyment for life as it turns up.

In the case of my guest Janet Attwood this is expressed as a celebration of knowing and living her passion.

She is the co-author of the New York Times Bestseller, “The Passion Test-The Effortless Path To Discovering Your Life Purpose”, and co-author of “From Sad to Glad: 7 Steps to Facing Change with Love and Power”.

I was curious to find out if the saying “Pursue your passion and the money will follow” was really possible; and that was on the proviso that a person honestly knew what they were passionate about (in the first place).

Janet Attwood Interview (unlinked)

The rest of this blog and interview recording have been relocated to:

http://yourmoneyandyourmindset.com/entrepreneurship/janet-attwood-interview-making-money-from-your-passion/

Rhiannon Rees Interview: The Courage To Live An Ordinary Life

I am very blessed to have access to many successful people where I get to ask about their journey to financial success. However, it is not often that I am inspired and amazed at their personal stories to the degree that I was when I spoke with Rhiannon Rees.

She is a business coach, humanitarian, entrepreneur, mother and author of “How to Climb Mount Everest in Sandals-The Courage to Live an Ordinary Life”.

Rhiannon shares her challenges of dealing with childhood abuse, a dysfunctional family, a brother’s suicide, a toxic business partnership, the surprise that comes with finding a cross dressing husband (in her lingerie), and living in a tent with her one year old son when her marriage disintegrated.

Most people would be forgiven for taking the default position of do nothing and be nothing should this have been their circumstances.

What was fascinating was Rhiannon’s mind shift that involved reading over 400 self help and psychology books and Adlerian therapy that dragged her from the precipice to living her dream life. Being ranked 4th Best Business Coach in the World for 2010 by Action Coach is fitting peer recognition.

Listen to what this heart centered entrepreneur with a whole lot of wisdom (and love) has to share.

Rhiannon Rees Interview

Should you be inspired by her words and energy and want to know more, head over to http://lovelivingthedream.com/coaching/

Julie Steelman Interview: Sales is Not a Dirty Word

Julie Steelman knows a thing or two about selling; by choosing to see her sales role as one of giving overwhelming value and service to her clients it has made her debt free and allowed her to retire (at a very young age) to tropical Hawaii.

If you want proof, how about being able to generate $100 million in sales (this is not a typo) from clients such as Apple, Microsoft, Toyota, CBS Sony and Universal Pictures.

And this is when most people are struggling to make commissions and targets.

In her new book “The Effortless Yes: Get the Sales You Want and Make All You’ll Ever Need”, Julie shares her “a ha” moment after the very lean first two years in the business.

Her Road to Damascus moment can be summed up in one sentence, “It’s not about you, it is about the customer”.

Julie Steelman Interview (unlinked)

Julie’s advice: “Get over yourself because it is not personal; you’re here because you have something unique to give that can make someone’s life a lot better”.

Can’t argue with that kind of logic.

So if you have been finding the whole “selling” thing awkward, uncomfortable and downright icky (a technical term in the sales game), do yourself a favor and invest in Julie’s years of wisdom and practical know how-NOW!

Find Julie Steelman at:

http:// www.juliesteelman.com

Kristen Howe Interview: From Broadway to My Way

Kristen Howe is a Broadway actor and founder of Go Big Coach.

She understands that we all need to express our individual creativity and through her coaching Kristen has helped her clients find their passion and make a motza in the process.

In this interview Kristen explains her version of the Law of Attraction and how it has got her to the level of success she now enjoys.

Kristen Howe Interview Please go to http://yourmoneyandyourmindset.com

 

Dr Xenia Ioannou Interview: Her Inner Journey to Wealth

Dr Xenia Ioannou is a millionaire property investor, businesswoman, wife, mother and author of “Your Inner Journey to Wealth-A Guide to Developing a Millionaire Mindset”.

Together with husband Angelo they founded Alexa Property Group with Real Estate Sales, Property Management, Acquisitions, Research, Education under this extensive company umbrella.

My interest in conducting these interviews has always been to uncover the motivation that spurs a person to become successful. Speaking with Xenia about her own experiences to creating wealth was akin to finding a huge nugget whilst prospecting.

Xenia Ioannou Interview (unlinked)

When a guest so honestly shares the challenges that turn up and more importantly how she overcame these challenges, well that is pure gold.

Xenia’s message is simple, “Take responsibility and don’t be a victim”. Equally important, “Find mentors and associate with like minded people who want to succeed”.

You can’t argue with that direct kind of approach that dare I say harks from her time as a medical research scientist.

Is it paradoxical that someone trained in analytical, scientific evaluation methods can point to an individual’s mindset as the determining factor for success (or not)? Let’s just say that the person most adaptable wins.

What this should mean to you dear reader is that within each and everyone of us is the potential to becoming successful and creating lasting wealth. So, are you ready to step up?

Xenia, to her credit has made it her personal mission to help every person who desires financial freedom by providing the necessary education they did not get at school.

Please go to her website to download Chapter 1 of her book.

http://www.wze.com.au

Scott and Bethany Palmer Interview: Ask The Money Couple

Scott and Bethany Palmer are best known as “The Money Couple” and authors of  “Cents and Sensibility” and “First Comes Love, Then Comes Money”. They are certified financial advisers based in Colorado Springs Colorado and together run Envoy Financial.

Scott and Bethany’s corporate mission statement “Strengthening personal financial relationships” should resonate with anyone who is in a relationship or thinking about going in to and/or getting out of one.

Have you ever noticed that for a commodity that we literally could not do without, serious discussions about money between couples can elicit a range of responses some of which border on the irrational?

Scott and Bethany Palmer Interview. You can download the mp3 recording and pdf transcript of this interview by going to http://yourmoneyandyourmindset.com/online-store/

I asked Scott and Bethany about the dynamics involved in managing joint finances for two people who are about to make a serious commitment to each other. As Scott and Bethany explained “It starts with each person understanding themselves and their personal views on money. These inherent money profiles that we all have determine whether we are savers or spenders, risk takers and everything else in between”.

They go on to say, “Financial infidelity can occur if there isn’t the understanding and clear communication between two people ”.

Got that folks? Talk to your significant other about money, and do it in manner that is non judgmental or accusatory. Personally I think that not taking an interest (no pun intended) in your day to day budget, investments and retirement plan is much like sticking your head in the sand. Wishing someone else will deal with it just does not cut it; you really do not want your assets exposed.

What gladdened my heart was to hear Scott and Bethany supporting parents who want to give their kids a firm financial grounding as early as possible. Therefore, teaching your children to save, invest and respect money will give your kids a tremendous head start. Kids, you will thank your parents for this one day.

As for the sensitive subject of estate planning, Bethany as the mother of two young boys shares her personal story of overcoming breast cancer. Their advice, “Take the emotion out of the decision making process is the first step”, indeed is the most important we all could use.

Find Scott and Bethany Palmer at:

http://www.themoneycouple.com

Sue and Steve Soucy Interview: The “Social Media Attractionaire” Experts

It is always nice to talk to people who generously share their knowledge and honestly state that becoming successful is a work in progress.

Sue and Steve Soucy Interview You can download the mp3 recording and pdf transcript of this interview by going to http://yourmoneyandyourmindset.com/online-store/

Not only that, Sue and Steve Soucy have documented their journey to wealth and financial independence in a very public way that let’s the rest of us see real people launching real internet based businesses on line, and doing very well, thank you.

This is a couple who believes that by focusing and being clear on what they want and practicing what they preach, they can manifest their goals-Law of Attraction, anyone?

Yes, Sue and Steve stepped out of their comfort zone and in front of a camera and posted their wealth creation journey in real time on FaceBook, Youtube and Twitter. Now that is a bold move if you ask me.

However, do you not feel privileged to witness two seemingly “regular” people having fun along the way in their quest for financial freedom?

Does it not challenge the stereotype that rich people have no sense of humour or are unapproachable?

I sincerely hope that when you listen to this interview, you one day can picture yourself in a similar position.

Do me a favour and drop me an email saying that day you started to believe in yourself and that it made a world of difference to the quality of your life.

Sue and Steve Soucy Teach Passionate Entrepreneurs Worldwide How to Make Their Lives Better with the Law of Attraction, Videos and Social Media.

http://www.sueandsteveshow.com